tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7589288022962723563.post1152371549232067164..comments2023-06-13T04:07:52.798-07:00Comments on For those who reflect...: RegretsZeehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04961343586121138578noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7589288022962723563.post-88142447754291670942013-04-19T07:33:50.207-07:002013-04-19T07:33:50.207-07:00Wa'alaikam assalam, Thanks for your comments g...Wa'alaikam assalam, Thanks for your comments guys. Its true we learn a lot about ourselves, more importantly we should be open to learning about the other person too, since we intend to spend the rest of our life with them.<br /><br />Don't be disheartened at the prospect of a good marriage (A Muslima), a good marriage is still full of ups and downs, and its actually being able to recover from the downs that make it a good marriage. From someone who has been married and divorced - I am still very hopeful and look forward to making marriage successful and beautiful. And yes, only goodness can come from you completing half your deen, and helping someone else complete half of their deen - that's beautiful in itself, because you may have trials in the marriage, but imagine all the trials your saving him/yourself from as single people - fitna/lustful desires/loneliness! :) Indeed a good marriage is difficult, you just both have to be willing to work at it.Zeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04961343586121138578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7589288022962723563.post-72026106373847107172013-04-13T08:17:21.258-07:002013-04-13T08:17:21.258-07:00Salaam,
jazakAllah khayr for writing this piece -...Salaam,<br /><br />jazakAllah khayr for writing this piece - a total reality check. To me, the longer I've been single, the more difficult it seems that the prospect of a good marriage seems - I guess when Allah swt has made something halal, it's only by His mercy that it can become good. Hope to read more of your insights soon xA Muslimahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15079542854261887150noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7589288022962723563.post-3453374208713241232013-04-12T05:11:25.376-07:002013-04-12T05:11:25.376-07:00JazakAllah - excellent and very accurate piece. Th...JazakAllah - excellent and very accurate piece. Theory sounds so wonderful beforehand, but once you're in the situation and need to practice it, you learn so much about yourself and find that you have so much more work to do on your own self - before you can come close to those ideals you dreamed of.<br /><br />May Allah help us all...Dreamlifehttp://dreamlife.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.com